The back yard is a place of fun. It’s safe and our green grass (which is mostly weeds but looks like grass when it’s mowed short) beckons us everyday for family picnics, baseball games and reading aloud.
Our backyard is one of the top reasons we bought this home and it still makes me happy every time I look out the window, or make a trip to the compost bin, or when I’m out pulling weeds – so like umpteen times a day.
It’s familiar and wonderful.
But recently we have been exploring uncharted territory.
The Front Yard.
We live on a kinda-busy street… it’s in the heart of a neighborhood, so that cuts down traffic, but it’s one of the main streets to get around in our neighborhood.
It all started when our oldest son was ready to learn how to ride a two-wheel-bike. We don’t have the space in our safe haven of a backyard. We had to move forward… to the frontlines… I mean yard.
Eeek.
It turns out, this simple switch had changed us from a couch potato family in the evenings to an active family. Now, I have to admit, we already are a pretty outdoorsy family. We do lots of physical things (like our neighborhood sunset hikes, a pic of one below), but our evenings had become more of a routine and less of an adventure.
I hate that.
I know it’s silly but there’s no reason you have to be stuck in a routine… even on school nights. (gasp)
I’m not saying stay up till midnight on a school night, but I am saying, be careful of routines. I feel like too much of a routine speeds up the short time we have on earth by blurring everything and everyday together.
And that’s a shame.
And sad.
And preventable!!!!
The front yard has spiced things up and it wasn’t even that difficult.
Small Things are Big Things, friends!
I’ve pulled out a chapter book to read aloud to the children on the small patch of grass in the front yard. We hang out there, ride bikes/scooters, create chalk drawings, and I flag down and chat with anyone who walks by our little circus. One teenager we saw a second time said, “I remember you guys, your little son was doing hand stands in your driveway the other night.”
Ummm… yep… that was us.
And with our circus, clothing/shoes are usually mismatched, pajamas or optional.
True story.
If you are looking for a way to go from a family of couch potatoes to an active family here are some ideas:
- Make a list. We did a summer bucket list this year because this is our first real summer. Ya know, before school starts, it’s an endless summer and you don’t have to plan activities around any schedule… except the nap schedule.
Our summer bucket list has been super helpful and it’s filled with simple things.
See…
- Sign up for something. Anything… as long as it’s active and involves the whole group in some way. It’s great to have some real accountability while making new habits and you’ll create community while being active.
- Buy tickets and make traditions. Communities have events. A lot. Do an internet search and try something new and create new active traditions. We recently went to a baseball game and on a watermelon picking tour at a local farm. With both, I felt like it was a waste of money when I bought the tickets, but afterward it felt like the beginning of something new. And I like that. (Side note: I want to move to a farm so if you know anyone who is giving one away, I’m interested.)
- Don’t buy tickets and still make new traditions. Communities have free stuff too. Do an internet search and do something. We go to the flea market every month and to the beach every week. Wait… is that a routine or a tradition? Because a routine is bad and a tradition is good. OK… a routine some action that feels hum-drum and dull and is making your life an insignificant blur. And a tradition is when you really look forward to something you have done many times in the past. Sound legit? Because I just made it up!
Thanks for reading friends!
And if you want to read more about creating an active lifestyle for you and your family check out Sexy Mom’s Running Club. The creator, Becky Reese, a mom of 5, has made it her personal mission to empower moms across the country to feel beautiful no matter what their size. She founded Sexy Mom’s Running Club to help busy women make themselves a priority again. Becky has created a pretty activewear line for women in sizes 10-18. And she has partnered up with Melissa Lanz, the author of The Fresh 20 cookbook for a giveaway here at Small Things.
You can win one item from the Becky Reese line of activewear and a copy of the Fresh 20 cookbook. I’m so excited about this cookbook!! It’s basically and “meal planning service that uses only twenty seasonal ingredients per week to cook five weeknight dinners.” And the photography is just lovely!
Aimee says
We love going for hikes!
Linsey K says
We’re big fans of grilling and eating outdoors! We also like to garden together (sensing a food theme. LOL)
Melanie says
I love going for walks on nature trails!
pattie cordova says
We’ve recently started a lot of board games. They’re so much fun!
Jill says
We love swimming and going to the tidepools.
Maribel Reyes says
We love riding our bikes together, haven’t done much riding lately… BUT we do like doing it as a family activity 😀
Sharon Garofalow says
I love this! Growing up, we spent all our time in the front yard as it was way bigger than our back yard. But what I remember most is that it had this total community feeling. All the kids would come out and hang out in the yard. The parents would gather in a driveway across the street and there were always tons of neighbors out. Such a great feeling! You are so right about making little changes to get out of a rut. I love how my kid’s eyes light up when we go off our routine.
Romina says
One of the things that I enjoy is taking nature walks on Saturday mornings with my family.
Anna says
We LOVE to swim. We live near the ocean, and love to play in the waves, but the pool is just as awesome. Swimming and summer go hand-in-hand. 🙂
Steph Calvert says
We love getting out of the house and going to Oatland Island, this educational animal lovers hiking space just outside of Savannah!
Chris says
We’re a family of 2. Weight training is something we’ve been doing together!
monica young says
we love taking bike rides
Shelby Barone says
Swimming together!
Debbie Miller says
Going to the movies!
linda says
I’m still in the endless summer phase of our lives, but we are really enjoying our BBQ this year. And I found a calendar online that gives a different activity to do every day in the summer. Doing that has been a lot of fun and it forces me to do something different. 🙂
Michelle Weisenberg says
We did a bucket list this year for the first time ever. We found ourselves visiting a museum, doing a jigsaw puzzle, riding bikes, and eating a lot healthier!
Amber Trepkowski says
We love to camp but can’t always get away for a weekend so we set up our tent in the backyard and have a campout at home.
Meghan says
As a family, we love to go bowling & then get water ice afterwards.
Amy Hoogstad says
We’ve been making it a point to get out more this summer. One thing we did that I’d love to make a tradition was a farm crawl (going to 6 different local farm to check them out and do a few activities) – I had to buy tickets for it and it was fairly expensive so I felt the same way about it as you did about the watermelon picking tour. But we ended up LOVING it and want to do it every year!